Jewel was propositioned for sex when she was eight
Singer/songwriter Jewel has battled sexual harassment her entire life, revealing she was once propositioned at the age of eight by a sick man who urged her to call him when she was old enough to have sex.
The Standing Still singer admits she's had her fair share of music industry cranks attempt to get her into bed, but she was prepared for the seedy side of fame thanks to her upbringing in Alaska.
She tells The Hollywood Reporter, "I've had men hitting on me,
sadly, since I was really young. At eight, I had men putting dimes
in my hands saying, 'Call me. It'd be so great to f**k when you're
older'. And just horrible stuff."
As disturbing as that was, it prepared her for her big break at 18,
when men came out of the shadows at gigs and in the studios and
attempted to bed her.
Jewel says, "I never slept my way to the top ever. There was never
one time I've ever compromised anything. I was always willing to
walk away... and I think that type of spirit that you bring just
informs everybody that's around you... I learned to keep my energy
to myself where there's nothing about me that seemed approachable.
And as men did approach me, I got very good at handling men in a
way that sort of didn't anger them... And at the same time using
wit and usually humor to defuse the situation and to inform them,
'P.S. Not available that way'.
"You know, I've heard plenty of stories that the opposite happens.
I saw what women would give up for a compliment. I felt men were
willing to take advantage if they saw something vulnerable."
Jewel touches on stories about the sick men, who would go to
extremes to bed her, in her new memoir, Never Broken: Songs Are
Only Half the Story, which will be released on 15 September
(15).