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Daya Talks “Sit Still, Look Pretty”

Daya Talks “Sit Still, Look Pretty”

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The singer-songwriter performs her hit song live in the Studio and reveals what it means to her.

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Young Hollywood

Hey guys, it's Dae here, Young Hollywood. And this is my new single, "Sit Still, Look Pretty."

Daya Talks

To dress up to get love. But guess what? I'm never gonna be that girl who's living in a Barbie world. To wake up and make up and fake on pretending that I need a boy who's gonna treat me like a toy.

Young Hollywood

We're with Dae here in Young Hollywood Studios. Hey. You're everywhere. I don't know, I don't know. You are, you are, you're everywhere. It's weird.

Daya Talks

Yeah, it's crazy. So much has happened. I just can't process it all. It just feels so real, feels like a dream.

Young Hollywood

I like your hair do you got going on too.

Daya Talks

Thank you. Yeah, I know. I don't, it's just kind of like

Young Hollywood

What's your hair do called?

Daya Talks

Uh, the the half way, half up, half down. If you're undecided, like you don't know if you want your hair up or your hair down, just go half up, half down, whatever you want to call it. Or half today.

Young Hollywood

I've done the man bun before. You have? I've done the man bun before. I haven't seen this side of you. Why are you laughing? She's laughing. Do we have pictures? Can we pull them up? They're all on Facebook.

Young Hollywood

So she was just singing her hit song right now. "Sit Still, Look Pretty."

Daya Talks

I know all the girlies want to wear expensive things, like diamond rings. But I don't want to be the puppet that you play on a string. This queen don't need a king. Oh, I don't know what you've been told. But this girl right here is gonna rule the world. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna be because I want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty. You get up on a 9 to 5 dream, or pick it back and turn to a trophy wife. But no, I'm never gonna be because I don't want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty.

Young Hollywood

Just that alone. Sit still, look pretty. Why did you come up with that line? Why did that phrase? What is that song mean to you?

Daya Talks

That song is so important to me. And um, it's the title of the album too. So it's just it resonates a lot with me. And you know, I grew up in a family of five girls. And we are all very driven, very talented. And you know, our parents always encouraged us, always supported us to go after our dreams and ambitions. And taught us that we can do anything that guys can. And we shouldn't let anyone stop us from doing that. So that was kind of the mindset that went into this. And I want to inspire young girls everywhere to know that they really can believe in themselves, be confident and accomplish anything.

Daya Talks

The only thing a boy is gonna give a girl for free is captivity. And I might love you, but I'm not that sugar sweet. Call me HPIC. Oh, I don't know what you've been told, but this girl right here is gonna rule the world. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna be because I want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty. You get up on a 9 to 5 dream, or pick it back and turn to a trophy wife. But no, I'm never gonna be because I don't want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty.

Young Hollywood

The music video is really cool. You're just like standing there. So you sit still.

Daya Talks

Yeah.

Young Hollywood

But it's like you're like in a caged glass box, but you don't want to be there.

Daya Talks

Yeah, I really love the concept of that. So it's basically me like on a display, like in an art museum or something like that. And I'm kind of this piece of art that people are looking at, people are admiring. And these like four business executives are like standing there with like iPods and like writing down, they're kind of controlling what they want me to look like to impress them or to impress guys or whatever. And kind of objectifying me in that sense. And then towards the end of it, I break out and I start fighting the guys next to me and it's like this very like badass cool moment. So

Young Hollywood

And then of course, they have their shirts off. What

Daya Talks

Well, then I turn the tables on them to show them what it was like.

Young Hollywood

Next time you do a video like that, let me know. I'm ready to take my shirt off. You ready? Yeah.

Daya Talks

Oh, I don't know what you've been told. But this girl right here is gonna rule the world. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna be because I want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty. You get up on a 9 to 5 dream, or pick it back and turn to a trophy wife. But no, I'm never gonna be because I don't want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty.

Young Hollywood

Sit still, look pretty. Well, I have been stalking you on your social networks. And I brought up some Instagram photos that I wanted to talk about. Can we talk about some Instagram photos? Are we gonna do this? Let's see what we got. Oh, here we go. What's going on here, Dae?

Daya Talks

Um, I was a nerd. That was me. Well, I am a nerd, so that wasn't really a costume. No. Oh, no. That was a sad day. That was my first hometown show. Which was really fun. And I was opening for Tori, I think, was the headliner. I was like kind of starstruck meeting Tori Kelly. I mean, she's an incredible singer and so, so talented. Yeah. This was when it was all starting.

Young Hollywood

What else we got back there? Oh, wow. What's going on here? Oh wait, I have the same hair, I have the same hair do. Is that the same hair do?

Daya Talks

I know, this is like the second time that I've ever worn this hair do in you guys pick up. I knew that was gonna happen. You know, you know it. Oh yeah, that was behind the scenes of um, the MTV Guy Code commercials.

Young Hollywood

You like being on camera?

Daya Talks

Do I like it? Yeah. I mean, I guess so.

Young Hollywood

So they had you, they had you like in a bunch of sketches, right? For MTV.

Daya Talks

Yeah. I mean, it's fine. It's fine for sure.

Young Hollywood

I thought you were hilarious on there. Thank you. Good work.

Daya Talks

It was very fun for me to do.

Young Hollywood

Let's see what else we got there on the Instagram wall.

Daya Talks

Oh, that's also a picture of me and my sister. That was a couple weeks ago. I don't know why our eyes are closed. Um, that was at Atlanta in Music Midtown. And that was one of my favorite festivals that I've played to date. Like that was so much fun. The crowd was so energetic, so wild. And I brought her on stage because it was her birthday that day. And she happened to be there. Like they can't really come to that many shows, like my younger sisters, because they have school and everything and they're usually tied up with things. But we have family in Atlanta, so they came down for the weekend. And um, I surprised her by pulling her out on stage. It was very cool.

Young Hollywood

Let's see what else we got on the Instagram feed. Here we go. What's that one from? What? How did that get up there? What? Who? Do you remember that? Who did it? Who done it? What what was that?

Daya Talks

No. This is not this is not happening right now.

Young Hollywood

So, do you remember when that's from?

Daya Talks

Yeah, no, that's that's from South by Southwest in Austin. And you guys made me eat fried Oreos, fried freaking cinnamon buns or something like that.

Young Hollywood

We like to eat food with Dae. Let's do we have any food for Dae here in in the Young Hollywood Studios? Oh no. More food? Here you go. You don't have to eat it. What is this? This is not funnel cake, but we had funnel cake, I think in the interview last time on Backstage Diaries. But I was, what is it though?

Daya Talks

Okay, and then you were like, sorry, I didn't catch that on camera, like, can you eat that again? It was like, I'm pretty sure you were just messing with me cuz I ended up eating like like 20 fried Oreos. It was disgusting. And I like almost puked before my show. And then I spilled it all over my pants.

Young Hollywood

It spilled all over your pants. We got that on camera. Yeah. Oh. What the heck. This is actually really good.

Daya Talks

I know, this is really awesome. Bye bye, everyone. Thanks for watching.

Daya Talks

Oh, I don't know what you've been told. But this girl right here is gonna rule the world. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna be because I want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty. You get up on a 9 to 5 dream, or pick it back and turn to a trophy wife. But no, I'm never gonna be because I don't want to be. I don't want to sit still, look pretty. Sit still, look pretty. Sit still, look pretty.

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PEOPLE MENTIONED

  • Daya

    Singer-songwriter, subject of the video

  • Tori Kelly

    Headliner at Daya's first hometown show

FAQ

What is the meaning behind Daya's song "Sit Still, Look Pretty"?+
Daya explains that the song is about empowering young girls to believe in themselves, be confident, and accomplish anything, inspired by her upbringing in a family of driven sisters.
What is the concept of the "Sit Still, Look Pretty" music video?+
The music video depicts Daya as a piece of art on display, being objectified by business executives, before she breaks free in a badass moment.
What was Daya's experience at Music Midtown?+
Daya describes her performance at Music Midtown in Atlanta as one of her favorite festivals due to the energetic crowd, and she brought her sister on stage for her birthday.
Did Daya appear on MTV's Guy Code?+
Yes, Daya mentioned that she was in a bunch of sketches for MTV's Guy Code.
What happened to Daya at South by Southwest?+
At South by Southwest in Austin, Daya was made to eat multiple fried Oreos, which she said almost made her puke before her show.

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