Mystery and The Pick-up Artists

About this video
It was a best-selling book based on "Mystery" and his study and stories of women and how to get them. Now, it has a cult following and men all over the country treat it as their bible. Young Hollywood sits down with the guys known as "Mystery," "Lovedrop," "Matador," and "Mehow" to learn their secrets to playing the game. Hosted by Jill Wilderman.
Chapters (6)
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Key Moments (5)
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Key Topics (5)
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- Mystery
- Lovedrop
- Matador
- Mehow
- Jill Wilderman
Full Transcript
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Welcome to Young Hollywood. I'm here with Nihao, Matador, Mystery, and Love Drop. And I'm going to have them tell you a little bit about what they do.
part of an international community of pickup artists. The whole art form was invented by Mystery here. We spent the past 10 or 15 years developing the system and we were also featured in a bestselling book starring you, the game. What we're doing is we we're we're defining all social dynamic interaction in terms of of indicators of interest, indicators of disinterest when it's all said and done. From meeting a woman to beginning a sexual relationship goes through a series of natural phases. Whether you know it or not, these natural phases take place. If you knew what the objectives of each of the phases were, then you can meet those objectives very efficiently and get virtually any woman you wanted. You go into any public gathering, whether she's taken or not, whether she's married or not and systematically trigger attraction, it is almost like magic, it's almost like a superpower. Not only could she not say no to you, but she would never want to.
If I could sum it up with one statement, it's about managing emotions. People backwards rationalize there's something about him. I mean, these ideas in our head that this person is there's something about this person. No, you feel something when you're around that that person.
What does work is like being this incredibly compelling, fun, giving social personality that sort of sucks people in, like if you see us doing a pickup, you can't tell it's really a pickup. It just looks like there is just this cool guy hanging out. It's a combination of adding value and positivity and good feelings and good emotions to an interaction, while at the same time, being completely not needy, no expectation of outcome, unaffected, unreactive to things, and at the same time adding a really good positive energy to the interaction.
There are a lot of rules and social norms that are created in this three-day call period. It's nonsense because in three days, she can forget very quickly who you are. There's that rule where you say don't call her for three days and that's like in the popular press and stuff and it's incorrect because if you have good game, you really want to call her the next day. Because if she's really into you, why would you wait three days for her to meet like 12 other guys? So you actually want to get in there and get in her life as soon as possible. But to do that, you have to be totally un-needy when you meet her. See, most guys are very needy when they meet her, so then they got to wait the three days for her to get them to call them back. What I like to do is I like to text her right then and there that night. I won't even ask anything. I won't try to get anything. I'll just say, "Hey, how are you doing?" And leave kind of a suspense hanging in the air.
It's going to be interesting to see what happens in society where these facts that are, you know, very, very real like the fact that I can make out with a girl while she's holding her boyfriend's hand, it and there was a specific method I used to do that. The fact that I can do that seems just sort of crazy.
So what are some of the secrets? What do men do wrong?
Men don't teach their sons what is necessary in this life. They don't teach their sons that the purpose of life is to survive and replicate. You got 28,000 days to make it happen. And everything else is bullshit.
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PEOPLE MENTIONED
- Mystery
Pick-up artist, inventor of the 'art form'
- Lovedrop
Pick-up artist discussing techniques
- Matador
Pick-up artist discussing techniques
- Mehow
Pick-up artist discussing techniques
- Jill Wilderman
Host of the interview




