Zoe Saldana defends husband's name change
Zoe Saldana has come to the defense of her husband Marco Perego after he took her last name following their wedding, insisting she was "proud" of his choice.
The Avatar beauty and the Italian artist exchanged vows during a low-key wedding in 2013, and in a recent interview with InStyle magazine, she confessed that when Perego came to her with the idea of going against marriage tradition, where the wife takes the husband's name, she had doubts about his choice.
She said, "I tried to talk him out of it. I told him, 'If you use
my name you are going to be emasculated by your community of
artists, by your Latin community of men, by the world'. But Marco
looks up at me and says, 'Ah, Zoe, I don't give a damn.'"
After the story hit headlines, Saldana and Perego received both
support and criticism, the latter of which the actress responded to
on her Facebook.com page on Tuesday (09Jun15).
She wrote, "Fathers, sons, brothers, men everywhere: Your legacy
will not perish if you take your partner's surname, or she keeps
hers. I've been made aware that a comment I made regarding my
marriage has garnered some attention. I felt proud that my husband
decided to take my last name as his own... and I his.
"I shared my hesitation with him when he told me about his
decision, not only did he say, 'I don't give a shhheeeetttt!!
(s**t)' (with a very strong Italian accent!!) he also asked me,
'Why not? What are you so afraid of?' And it made me wonder... What
am I so afraid of?... Why is it so surprising, shocking- eventful
that a man would take his wife's surname? Women have never been
asked if its ok for them to give up their names - why doesn't that
make the news?
"Men, you will not cease to exist by taking your partner's surname.
On the contrary - you'll be remembered as a man who stood by
change. I know our sons will respect and admire their father more
because their father lead by example.
"Gentlemen, I implore you to think outside the box- remove the box
altogether. Let's redefine masculinity. A real 'man' leads along
side his partner. A real man accepts his mortality. A real man
acknowledges that nothing can be done alone.
"I hope that the 'buzz' behind this topic isn't just for gossip -
but an inspiration for us all to look within and see what is truly
important. Let's start by letting go of some of the limitations we
have inherited from the past, and forge a new path moving
forward.
With Love, Zoe and Marco."