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How XO, Kitty's Gia Kim Relates to Her Character Yuri

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Actress Gia Kim sits down with Young Hollywood to talk about her role as campus queen bee Yuri in Netflix's 'To All The Boys' spinoff "XO, Kitty", including her character's most iconic outfit, the challenges of returning to (fake) high school, and how she relates to Yuri, plus she shares her thoughts on the fans' reaction to the significant Asian representation in the series. "XO, Kitty" is now streaming on Netflix!

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Young Hollywood

Okay, good one. Okay. Yeah. You might give me a this, okay. Um, it's something that you hold, so you don't tell anyone if it's this is something you don't tell people.

Gia Kim

A secret.

Young Hollywood

Yes. Oh. Yeah. I was like, is there more to it? Okay. Yeah. So obviously you had a big secret.

Gia Kim

Yes. Yes.

Young Hollywood

Well, your mom did too. Holding like kicking Juliana out. Right. Um, so shady. But besides that, so with X O Kitty, when do you like the way that the storylines all unfolded? Um, Would you write anything differently if as like a fan versus someone who's in the show?

Gia Kim

Oh, I don't, I don't know. I don't know if I would write anything differently, because I think the way the writers wrote it, even as we were getting the scripts like one by one by one and we were reading it, it was so addictive. Like we wanted to know, oh my God, what happened in the next episode, because they always leave with cliffhangers, you know. And so many things happen in season one, as you know. So many twists and turns just in 10 episodes and I feel like that was kind of an homage to Korean, some of the Korean drama types where a lot of ridiculous things happen at the same time, it's called in Korean. Um, and I think a lot of directors and writers kind of lean towards like what is the K drama style? And so, I think it was just, it just everything kind of, they knew the formula. I think. They knew what to do.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. And so many comments in the trailer before the show was even out was like emphasis on that. Like the K drama aspect and everything. So, it was really good. Right. Yeah. What do you think was Yuri's most iconic outfit? You got everyone's designer on X O Kitty. Like you look good.

Gia Kim

Uh, I think the party dress with the the Lady Gaga esque like luminous, I don't even like a foil type of dress, it was just perfect for the party scene, because it was just bouncing off all the lights. It was, it was fun. It was fun to wear. Yeah.

Young Hollywood

Okay. Ready for the next one?

Gia Kim

Yes. Oh, wait. No, I shouldn't see this. Hold on.

Young Hollywood

Okay, yeah. Okay. Okay, you might get this pretty fast because it's really easy. Okay. Okay, so it is, it's music it is related to music.

Gia Kim

K-Pop?

Young Hollywood

Yep. That was, that was, that was fast. That was a really fast one. Okay. So, you have the scene with Kitty though, it was one of her dreams. But you guys like she's about to kiss you. What was the scene filming that like?

Gia Kim

Oh, well, I think by then I had already done my scene with Juliana, that was really intimate. And so it was less nerve wracking for me, although it was my first time kissing on screen with a partner in the show. Um. Ever. Would Yeah. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So, I was nervous, but then we also had a great intimacy coach which, you know, she really helped us relax and ease into it before we started shooting. So, that really helped us a lot and Anna and I were so close by then and comfortable with each other that we didn't really think much of it and I knew that the anticipation is worse than the actual day of. Yeah. So, I think by then we were pretty comfortable with it.

Young Hollywood

And it's crazy though, because obviously, like on the carpet, we asked everybody if they're team Min Ho or Dae. But every all a lot of our comments are no, no, no, like we're team Yuri. Like so many people picked up on that one too, which of course like it makes sense, because I only got through so many screeners, but now like it makes sense people were team Yuri. It's so funny how like there's like literally three teams. Like people are all different types of people, but everybody loved that scene, like the breakup scene. What what team are you on?

Gia Kim

Oh my gosh. I am team Min Ho, I think. Just because, okay, the love thing was a lot. Like he just he had done all that, like he needed to chill. Well, like that's like me in real life. I'll be like, oh my God, I'm literally in love with him. So like I'm like the same. Like him and I are the same person. But I am team him. But like I also, I would not be ever team Dae. Well, not ever. But like I would be team Yuri next.

Young Hollywood

Okay, okay, okay, yeah. I think me too, personally, just because that trope of enemies to lovers is so, you know, you gotta show love that. Yeah. And like she did her facial expressions so good on the plane that it's like, oh she might actually be like, wait a second, like and give him a chance. We don't know. That's why we need season two.

Gia Kim

Yeah, exactly.

Young Hollywood

Okay. Ready? Is it my turn?

Gia Kim

Yes.

Young Hollywood

Okay. Let's grab a random one. Oh. This is what Kitty calls Dae when she finds out he had another girlfriend while she thought that they were in a relationship together. Oh, cheater. Yes. Okay. Yes, yes, yes, yes. The cupcake scene. The big, the big cupcake scene. Yeah. Okay, how did it feel though for you to play that going back to school? Um, were you nervous to take that on?

Gia Kim

It, I was, I was, because I think I was obviously, the prep phase was really stressful, not only because it was my first big TV role, but also, you know, it was hard for me to it was just a lot for me to, um, kinda merge with the character and not try to play it off as just a Queen Bee, you know. Yeah. And going back to high school, it's been a minute since I graduated from high school personally. So, it took me, I guess it took me back to like how what kind of person was I when I was in high school, you know, and how am I different from Yuri and how do I bridge that difference? And it was interesting. Also, because I feel like I've always been told that I'm mature for my age. Right. And then to like step into that joyous, kid like, you know, oh love kind of 16-year-old, that was kind of hard, you know. And then my mom character was actually the one that gave me a bit of advice on that. She was like, you know, instead of trying to, you know, play a 17 or 16-year-old, just kinda think back to what kind of songs you listened to when you were 16 and 17 and in love, you know. And then that's when I was like, oh okay. So, I started listening to oldies, like what I listened to in high school and like think about my high school crushes and all of that, you know, to get into it. So, that was interesting.

Young Hollywood

Oh my gosh. You bet. It's funny because like high school love is so different than real life love. Like you're saying. So, it's like that was smart advice. Because it's like you have to go back to the crush phase and like you're nervous and like jittery and like it's not all hookups. Like it's just kissing, you know what I mean.

Gia Kim

Yeah, exactly. The innocent love.

Young Hollywood

Do you find that you're alike with Yuri in any way?

Gia Kim

The scene with my mom was definitely something that I was, it was, first of all, Yuri's big moment. Right? Like this is me, this is who I am. Either love me and accept me or I'm gonna walk away. You know, obviously she's like, please like accept me and love me. But, you know, the struggles of trying to be who I am, also figuring out who I am, but also trying to fight against external expectations from parents, society, whatever it is. I think that part I really related to. Yeah.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. A lot of people did too. Like that are watching that aren't actually Yuri.

Gia Kim

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like a lot of people are relating to the character in different ways.

Young Hollywood

Yeah, I love that. Yeah. Okay. Ready?

Gia Kim

Okay. All right.

Young Hollywood

Oh, this one could be good. Okay. So, I'm gonna, I could give it away in two seconds. Okay. So, you had a lot of scenes with him in the detention scene, which was all of them. Professor Lee? No. No. He's a different one, he was in there. I'm not gonna give it away. Min Ho? He's from France or Greece?

Gia Kim

Oh, Tae-il. Well, um, Florence. Yeah.

Young Hollywood

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Floren, not Florian. Florent. Florent. Who were you closest to on set?

Gia Kim

You mean like personally?

Young Hollywood

Yeah. Other than my brother?

Gia Kim

Other than my brother. We're not excluding him. Okay. Um, I don't know. I was close to everyone. Um, but I think in terms of one-on-one hangouts, I probably spent the most time with Jocelyn. Yeah. Yeah, just in terms of like other outside of group hangouts. Jocelyn, I think, um, right before she left back because she left a little bit earlier than the rest of us.

Young Hollywood

Gotcha.

Gia Kim

So, I remember just taking her to Hangong, which is the Han River and it's a tradition if you go there, you either have cup noodles or order chicken and eat it by the river. So, I wanted her to have that experience before she goes, so.

Young Hollywood

Yeah, you have to. I mean, you're in Korea, like.

Gia Kim

Yeah, exactly.

Young Hollywood

And filming like a Netflix show, like that's insane. What was your favorite scene to film?

Gia Kim

I think the one with my mom. And as hard as it was and I think the most nerve wracking it was for me, I think after it was done, I was like, oh my God, like it's done, you know, it was my big scene. So, that was I think my favorite moment, especially just because it's the favorite moment for Yuri, so I think that's why. Yeah.

Young Hollywood

It's a big one. Yeah. Okay. We'll do one more. Okay. Hopefully I'm able to get it good. He is the father of Kitty. Wait, say him. I don't know what you're saying. I don't. He's white. Yeah.

Young Hollywood

I mean. I know the dad. Yeah. I think he just the last name. It's like what's Kitty's last name? Kitty Song. No, I'm not gonna get it. Mr. Kim. Okay. That was a hard one. Because I know him. I can picture him. I can describe him to you. Yeah. His name is not very often said in the show, so that was fair. Okay. Okay, but there's a lot of obviously, like you had said in a different interview that you had wished that you had the show growing up. How important is it for you and what kind of comments have you been seeing about the show, um, and how much it's like helping people honestly, like relate to it and stuff?

Gia Kim

Well, first of all, it makes me really happy when fans say things like, they love the show and they love Yuri and I had a few people specifically say that they are so thankful to see a character like Yuri, because they're going through something similar in terms of finding out who they are or specifically in terms of their sexuality and it is still, at least when I was growing up, and even now, we still live in a pretty heteronormative society. So, a lot of storylines are more hetero love than, you know, other otherwise. But growing up, I didn't see anything like that. So, in my mind, I think, you know, the more you're exposed to something, the more normalized it becomes, right? So, that's why I wish that we had more diverse forms of love shown on screen. And especially, because I grew up mostly in Asia and especially in Korean content, it's kind of still rare to see, um, queer story love line be the center, main storyline and not like a side thing or like, you know, um, it's still rare to see. So, I I was really happy that this show is kind of like a collaboration between K-dramas and American TV and it just kind of came together and showcasing all these different forms of love, I think is something that everyone should see more of.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. It's definitely like it tackles everything honestly. Like it's it's a great show and you don't see it anywhere else. Like it's a really good show. Did you did you meet Jenny? Was she there with you guys?

Gia Kim

Yeah. Yeah. She was there in Korea.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. All her social media is popping off too. Like anything she posts with you guys, it's like a million likes. They love that.

Gia Kim

Yeah. Yeah. I know. It's crazy. She's a genius though.

Young Hollywood

But besides X O Kitty, I know you've just talked about it for like 15 minutes. But what do you love to do? Um, like hobbies?

Gia Kim

Yeah. Uh, I love yoga and I'm sad I haven't been able to go in the past week or so, because I've just been running around. Um, that's just something that I need for my mental and spiritual health. Of course. Like, I need it. Like every time I'm there, I'm like, oh my God, I'm finally breathing. I'm okay.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. Exactly. Everything's fine.

Gia Kim

Exactly. I'm here. I'm alive. I'm okay. Um, um, also this love listening to music. I like driving around, listening to music. I think it's very healing. Right?

Young Hollywood

Yeah. Like the best thing in the world.

Gia Kim

Yeah. Like singing in the car and no one can hear you and I mean, I don't know if you've seen, but like my brother and I when we're in the car together.

Young Hollywood

Oh, I saw the collab post. I saw the collab post. I did see that.

Gia Kim

Yeah. So, we do that a lot. We have a lot of fun in the car together. It's just like I'm driving, so I can't go, you know, too crazy. But like it's fun when he's around and we do that together. And, you know, we love watching movies together too. So, right now he's crashing at my place. So, um, we're spending a lot of time together. A lot of time together. Yeah. So, yeah. But we love watching movies together too. So.

Young Hollywood

And you said that you got recognized like three days out from when the show dropped.

Gia Kim

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. In the most, in the places that I usually just go to, you know. Um, so that was unexpected.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. Is there any place that you are expecting to get caught soon? Like I know that's like a weird question, but like you've mentioned Starbucks, like yoga, you got recognized. So, like maybe a place you'd avoid now?

Gia Kim

Oh, I don't know. I because other than that, I'm I haven't been out in public that much.

Young Hollywood

You guys are just in the house.

Gia Kim

And neither has my brother. Yeah. We're we're pretty, you know, we're homebodies. Um, but I don't know. I I don't think I should avoid any places. Like I still don't assume people are gonna recognize me if I'm at Trader Joe's or something, you know. Like I assume I'm not gonna get recognized, but I don't know who knows. It's crazy though. That's like, oh my gosh, just wild.

Young Hollywood

In Times Square? Were you in Times Square when the the billboard?

Gia Kim

No. No. Anthony and Anna went like on a whim just to go see the billboard and I couldn't, but I I'm I don't know. I might. I don't know how long it's up there for, but.

Young Hollywood

Might need a quick trip to New York real quick.

Gia Kim

Yeah, I would love that.

Young Hollywood

Yeah. But you're amazing the show. The show is also amazing and thank you so much for playing Heads Up. Even though you killed it. You literally the perfect game. You did too. We got everything right.

Gia Kim

Thank you. Thank you. Because we just love X O Kitty so much.

Young Hollywood

Thank you. Thank you so much for watching us play the game. I hope you enjoyed it and remember to subscribe to Young Hollywood YouTube channel and go watch X O Kitty if you haven't.

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PEOPLE MENTIONED

  • Gia Kim

    Actress playing Yuri and interviewee

  • Yuri

    Character played by Gia Kim in 'XO, Kitty'

  • Juliana

    Character mentioned by interviewer

  • Kitty

    Main character of 'XO, Kitty'

  • Lady Gaga

    Artist whose style is referenced for an outfit

  • Anna Cathcart

    Co-star, played Kitty, mentioned as being close with Gia Kim

  • Min Ho

    Character in 'XO, Kitty', mentioned as a 'team'

  • Dae

    Character in 'XO, Kitty', mentioned as a 'team'

  • Florent

    Co-star, mentioned by interviewer in a game

  • Jocelyn

    Co-star, mentioned as being closest to Gia Kim

  • Jenny Han

    'XO, Kitty' creator, mentioned as being a genius

  • Anthony Keyvan

    Co-star, mentioned as seeing the billboard

FAQ

What is Gia Kim's character's most iconic outfit in XO, Kitty?+
Gia Kim believes Yuri's most iconic outfit is the Lady Gaga-esque luminous foil dress from the party scene, which was perfect for reflecting lights.
Who did Gia Kim spend the most time with on the set of XO, Kitty?+
Gia Kim spent the most one-on-one time with co-star Jocelyn on set, even taking her to the Han River for a traditional meal.
What was Gia Kim's favorite scene to film in XO, Kitty?+
Gia Kim's favorite scene to film was the one with her character's mom, despite it being nerve-wracking, as it was a significant moment for Yuri.
How does Gia Kim relate to her character Yuri?+
Gia Kim relates to Yuri's struggles with finding her identity and fighting against external expectations from parents and society.
What kind of feedback has Gia Kim received about the representation in XO, Kitty?+
Gia Kim has received thanks from fans who appreciate seeing a character like Yuri, especially regarding finding their sexuality, and she values the show's diverse portrayal of love.
What are Gia Kim's hobbies outside of acting?+
Gia Kim enjoys doing yoga for her mental and spiritual health, driving around listening to music, and watching movies with her brother.

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