Jordana Brewster: 'I feel awkward I missed out on the experience of childbirth'
Actress Jordana Brewster feels she missed out on the experience of childbirth because she had to use a surrogate.
The Furious 7 star welcomed son Julian with film producer husband Andrew Form via a surrogate in 2013 and she admits she sometimes feels "awkward" when other moms talk about their delivery room memories.
"I didn't really have a choice about being open, since it was
obvious I wasn't pregnant," she tells Yahoo! Parenting. "And for me
it wasn't a choice; I needed to use a surrogate.
"I didn't feel judged; it's more like I felt awkward. Even
recently, we were at this baby group and the teacher made the
assumption, 'Well, you all birthed your children...' and I couldn't
be like, 'Well, actually...' So sometimes I feel a little left out
when other moms talk about what their birth experience was like,
and I feel the loss of not having carried or having been able to
carry.
"Luckily, I keep my circle tight and close, so I never feel judged.
In many ways, I feel lucky that I was able to be open. There are so
many women who are young and have to go through IVF (in vitro
fertilization) and feel like they can't talk about it, and that's
really unfortunate."
And the actress insists her "awkward" feelings about surrogacy
won't stop her from adding to her brood.
"If I could just visualise it and make it happen, that would be
awesome," she continues. "I badly want Julian to have a brother or
sister, and God-willing it will happen soon."