Alicia Keys: 'Motherhood made me whole'
Motherhood has fulfilled Alicia Keys and taught her what's important in life.
The singer has two sons, two-year-old Genesis and six-year-old Egypt, with husband Swizz Beatz, and was unprepared for how much her life would change after starting a family.
One of the main alterations has been that Alicia has been able to
prioritize things in her life.
"I love being a mom," she smiled to America's Glamour magazine.
"And I think what I love the most is the way it makes me think
about what’s important and what’s not important. What to fight for
and what to just be cool with. What it is that I’m teaching through
example and what it is that I was taught that I don’t want to
teach.
"You can be very fulfilled as a mother, but that can’t be the only
way you are fulfilled. What about being a woman? What about being
yourself? Your awareness of what’s happening in the world? It lives
altogether in a way that makes a whole. I guess I’d say I’m the
wholest I’ve ever been."
Alicia has been working to promote women's rights in recent years,
and was one of the famous faces at the Women's March in Washington
D.C. earlier this month (Jan17).
When it comes to furthering female empowerment, Alicia believes in
women standing together - rather than being pitted against each
other.
“There is this fallacy about how women are catty, that we’re all in
competition with each other. I’d say: As opposed to getting swept
up in jealousy, use that pang to give you an indication of what you
are looking for,” she said.
Among Alicia's biggest inspirations is YouTube sensation Lilly
Singh, with the singer adding: "There is this awesome performer
Lilly Singh, who always does this thing: ‘Shout out another girl
and tell her what you love about her'. Even doing that is such a
good practice.
"I don’t know if we tell women great news about themselves enough.
You’d be surprised how often a young woman doesn’t hear positive
things about herself - not in her home, not at school. It’s hard to
create a beautiful image for yourself when you’ve never seen it or
heard it."