Anna Kendrick: 'Sex anxieties messed with my head'
Anna Kendrick's outlook on sex messed with her head until she became open about it.
The Pitch Perfect actress is known for her outspoken nature and little is out of bounds, especially when it comes to her personal life.
In her new book, Scrappy Little Nobody, Anna writes candidly about
her previous relationships and love life, though it took her some
time to feel comfortable enough to share her experiences.
"That section about sex, I felt, 'Oh boy, I’m opening myself up
here.' Once you talk about sex candidly, people might expect you to
do it all the time," she sighed to U.S. Vogue magazine, as she
explained how much it bothered her when women were criticized for
sleeping with a number of men, yet when a man does the same he is
considered a "stud". "I was like, 'What am I supposed to do?'
Literally six months ago, I was humiliated that I hadn’t even had
sex yet, and suddenly, I’m like, what if I have sex with too many
people? How am I both things? How am I too inexperienced, and, to
someone else’s eyes, too experienced? It really messed with
me."
Now the 31-year-old's surrounded by positive people who are
"sensitive and intelligent", the Up in the Air star no longer feels
the same anxieties. However she knows other women do, and hopes
that by sharing stories from her own life, as glamorous as it may
seem from the outside, it will help others not to feel so
alone.
"You have to make your mistakes, learn your life lessons," Anna
explained. "But hopefully if you do make the same kind of mistakes,
you don’t feel as bad because you know at least one other person
has made them."
Scrappy Little Nobody is available to buy now.